May I....doing and giving are not the same...we tend to assume things...we tend to tolerate things...it clarifies responsibility that check-list doesn't...clear structure to talk about needs, wishes and limits...we like to be surprised in a safe space....it helps to confront self with why you do what you do?...it brings you closer with your partner – promise!...it brings you closer with yourself...it brings you to your sub space....it brings you closer to awakening